Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Life after marriage

I reached office at 9.00 am today.Opened my mail box to check if my client has anything important for me to do and saw that there was nothing of immediate importance. I then decided to do some writing...something that I have been wanting to do for a long time now.
I have been married for four months now. These four months have been very tiring for me. My husband is very lean. When I first shifted to his house from mine, I had trouble locating him...he has a habit of sleeping under the covers and I always wake up before he does. Now the problem is he gets up sometime later and goes into the bathroom. I keep peeping into the bedroom at regular intervals to check if he has woken up. There are more than 5 instances when he had woken up and I did not realise it because the bed looks the same with and sans him under the covers :).
He doesnt like eating his breakfast before we leave for work. He generally eats at 10.00 am. I have tried all sorts of stunts to persuade him to eat at 7.30 am. All in vain....He is a damn good dancer and is always watching music channels on TV and dancing to the music.It has taken a very long time for me to understand and admire the person that my husband is. The first thing anyone would notice about him is his simplicity. When my sister told me about him first she told me that he looked very simple and had a very nice smile.He indeed is very simple ; in appearence and at heart. Its very easy to love such a person. He is a kid at heart. I sometimes find it difficult to understand him when he doesnt voice his concerns. However we have now come to a good understanding and can follow each others thought processes and moods.
He is a telivision addict. Watches TV like there is no tomorrow. And while he is watching TV nothing that I say reaches his ears. I sometimes feel like throwing the TV away. He however understands that I am not very find of that habit of his and tries to be as good as possible. He is a lovely person. I have always thought that people get bored of each other over time but I am falling more and more in love with my husband as our marriage is getting older.
The thing which makes him most special is that he cares. He cares a lot and he does a lot to keep me happy and to make me smile. Trust me when I say that he even dresses to please me. Every day he shows me what he is going to wear and asks me if the combination is good. I intially felt that I was restraining him but then he made me realise that he needs me. He needs me in each and every aspect as I need him. Its fun to have someone you can lean on to. We play games, watch movies and go for long drives late in the night. He is extremely sensitive, caring and very passionately loving.I respect him as a person and love him as my husband.